Alcohol Addiction, Nearly 300 Days Sober, Life Has Never Been Better

By james • February 1, 2024

When I was a child, I watched my uncle spiral into crazy drug addiction. To see the affect that had on my family (parents/grandparents) was horrible. A good man, taken by addiction, with no return.

I have no idea where he is now, or what he is doing, but this was the catalyst for me to never touch drugs. And I still never have.

But, 12 months ago, it was like I had an epiphany. I was a "heavy-ish" drinker of alcohol, all around social settings - but these social settings turned into 4-5 days a week. Dinners, steak nights, pubs, bards, wine bars - you name it, and I found an excuse to be there.

It got so bad, that it was affecting my life in a very negative way. I destroyed 2 previous relationships, got fired from my previous job, and quit my other job because it didn't suit my lifestyle.

But this lifestyle was quickly becoming an addiction, and one that had been brewing for a long time.

I had just got a new partner, and she is amazing. But we had a fight in March, that would not have been a fight had I been sober - when I get drunk, I get argumentative and demonstrative. To see the outcome of this, and be staring down the barrel of another relationship torched, I decided then and there to make a change.

I am now approaching 300 days sober, am in a very happy and committed relationship, have started a company that I have wanted to start for years, and am about to launch our first product (it's an app). I have read close to 40 books in the last 12 months, have not been to a pub or bar, learned to code, got in the best shape of my life, and feel extremely fulfilled.

I am about to launch a weekly podcast interviewing guests about their struggles, and started a newsletter called The Champions Journal of which is scaling faster than I thought.

Essentially, I have discovered, at the age of 33, that you do not need alcohol to have fun, and to be happy. For so long, I thought I needed to drink - but I don't.

I'd love this story to be a source of motivation for people reading it. But I'd also like to pose the question - have you thought about giving up alcohol? If so, did you, and why? And if you have thought about it, but not given up, why?

PREVIOUS STORY NEXT STORY SHARE YOUR STORY

feel good videoDogs Are Forced To Wear The Things They Steal — And It’s Hilarious

feel good storiesThe Father Who Never Left His Son Behind

feel good storiesThis Restaurant's Dog Menu Is Almost As Fancy As The Human Menu

feel good storiesMan’s Best Friend: The Story Behind An Unforgettable Tomb In London

feel good storiesHow A Silly 11-Second Song About Dr Pepper Changed Her Life Overnight

feel good storiesSenior Cat Labeled 'Sad And Scared' Finds Forever Home

feel good videoDogs Are Forced To Wear The Things They Steal — And It’s Hilarious

feel good videoHer Reaction To Getting The Baby Cow She’s Always Wanted Has Us All In Tears

feel good videoDonkey Opens Door, Then Waits Patiently To Be Let In For A Hug

feel good videoMan Takes A Bull To Starbucks For A Pup Cup

feel good videoHis Kids Wanted To Help With His Videos, So He Let Them Narrate — It’s The Cutest Thing