Loving And Losing

By dj • March 17, 2016

It is always a great feeling when you have a best friend. To talk to, to care for you, and to grow with. But sadly, there is always the common circumstance of losing that best friend. That's just life and it is very possible to go your separate ways. Yes, it might not happen, but there's still always the fear of losing a close friend that you hold dear.

About 5 years ago, I met my best friend. Him and I were inseparable. We were a duo. As we got older, we got more distant, but that doesn't mean we aren't best friends. We argue, but that doesn't mean we aren't best friends. Just because we have other friends doesn't mean we aren't best friends. It's kind of a cycle, if you think about it. Organized chaos. Some friends come, some friends go. Some stay, some don't. It's all a matter of chance.

Everybody has a different life, a different family, and different responsibilities and that is respected. My best friend and I have gone through tough times. We have matured together, cried together, laughed together... you name it. Every day, there are so many different ways it could start and so many different ways it could end. It all depends on who's starting and ending that day.

As I was saying, loving and losing is very common in a lifetime. No matter what, there will be change, but change is not always bad.

"Everything stays right where you left it. Everything stays, but it still changes. Every so slightly, daily and nightly. In little ways, everything stays."
-Everything Stays by Rebecca Sugar.

PREVIOUS STORY NEXT STORY SHARE YOUR STORY

feel good videoDogs Are Forced To Wear The Things They Steal — And It’s Hilarious

feel good storiesHow A Silly 11-Second Song About Dr Pepper Changed Her Life Overnight

feel good storiesSenior Cat Labeled 'Sad And Scared' Finds Forever Home

feel good storiesShe Could Have Kept Walking. Instead, She Stopped And Saved A Life

feel good storiesFamily On Walk Finds Kitten Covered In Ice, Stuck To Plastic She Was Hiding Under

feel good storiesNewborn Calf Barely Survives Freezing Cold, Then Finds Warmth With Kids

feel good video'You're a Unicorn': The Dementia Caregiver Who Just Stunned The American Idol Judges

feel good videoHis Kids Wanted To Help With His Videos, So He Let Them Narrate — It’s The Cutest Thing

feel good videoMeet Ella: She's 104, A WWII Veteran, And Swears By Peanut Butter

feel good videoNew Jersey Man Lets Robot Handle Snowstorm — Wakes Up To A Clear Driveway

feel good videoKid Knocks On Door To Ask If Their DOG Can Come Outside And Play