By Sonia Kaur • March 7, 2017

Friendship is a very beautiful bond in which no one is big or small, no one is rich or poor, no one is ugly or beautiful. Friendship is the only relation which is free from caste, creed, sex, no discrimination and full of love and purity.

Getting a good friend is a good feeling but being a good friend is more beautiful feeling. Friendship has two meaning ones is having good friend in our good and bad times and second is being a nice friend in every situation, both have their own different feeling. I prefer to be a good friend because I have God as my good friend always by my side. God is the only one who loves us unconditionally and be with us always with no means. He is the best listener, he accepts us as we are, he has no terms and condition, he only gives without expectations, without any limit, he forgives us, he tolerates our each and every mistake, he has a big heart and full of love and moreover he is not partial. So be a friend like God.

I don't believing in having good friend when God is always there for me but I believe in being a good friend because when you expect you remain heart broken and when you tend to give you become more cheerful, happy, satisfied. Everybody in this world is lonely in their heart because they need good friend, the one who listen them, encourage them, always be with them in the time of need. People expect more and give less that is why there is lack of love in this world. We are never taught to give. Nowadays society become selfish, running after money and their own comforts and forget about our own duties towards God's creations. Nobody wants to be a good friend and always do their grievances, if you want a good friend then first learn to be a good one.

You cannot be friend with people only, plants can also be a good friend. We only have to give time and love to them. Even I believe that our grand parents can also become our good friends and guide as well but likewise trees they are also ignored. Animals also can be a good friend, if we are lonely that doesn't mean that world is bad. No, world is as we see it. Loneliness means we are not giving. Start giving and get back in abundance. Life is an echo. What you give is what you get. Start from giving smile to everybody because smile is enough for starting a new relation. Plant trees so that people can take advantage of it all. Giving to unknown is called friendship with God's creation. This is also a very beautiful friendship.

Friendship means understanding, bonding, helpfulness. In friendship there are no terms and condition. There is no age factor in friendship. Each person has its own mind, own views and ideas, own perspective of life, you can learn a lot from your every friend but for learning something new you first need to be a good listener and down to earth.

One good friend is better than thousands of friends. What is the use of lots of friends? Nothing. So it is better to have one good friend who accept you as you are, who covers gaps, never let you fall. “Friends show their love in times of trouble, not in happiness.” -Euripides

“A friend is what the heart needs all the time.” -Henry Van Dyke. As I have mentioned above despite having good friend, be the one. I believe that God has sent us for his creations, to love, to care, to give all we can give then lets be a good friend. Don't expect the qualities of good friend from people let bring them all into us so that the world can get good friend. “If you go looking for a friend, you’re going to find they’re very scarce. If you go out to be a friend, you’ll find them everywhere.” – Zig Ziglar.

Be a good listener. We want to share our sorrow with others, we want someone to listen to us, some others want from us, so if you become a good listener I am sure you will be surrounded with lots of friends. Be happy and cheerful with your friend's success. Always remain with your friend in every situation, never be selfish, always try to give more and expect less. Give whatever you want from your friend like honesty, love, support, understanding and accompanied your friend everywhere, never misbehave with your friends when you are more successful, always remember lack of friends can meet only friends.

“If you are looking for a friend who is faultless, you will be friendless.” -Rumi. Everybody has flaws and for a good friendship we need patience because patience is a key of everything. The beautiful friendship is a childhood friendship free of jealousy, hatred and full of love and purity. Everything is being shared whether it is food or toy. Children is unaware of enmity, if anger arises then suddenly goes, this is the quality which makes child pure and special to everyone. For a good friendship one need true love and children are full of love that is why they are being loved by everyone.

Every relation is successful if there is friendship in between them. Friendship creates mutual understanding. Mutual understanding create a bond between two persons. Generation gap can also be covered by mutual understanding. We lack friendship because of our ego. Ego is enough for converting a good friendship into enmity. Ego can be changed into love, we only need to expect less and give more. Parents and children can be good friends, husband and wife can be good friends even neighbour can be good friends, we only need to give. Now what to give? Love, respect, help, understanding and make your relationships precious.

I hope you guys like it. May God bless you all with spiritual healthy wealthy long life and with good destiny.


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