By Sonia Kaur • December 28, 2016

What is pain? Pain is a reminder. It reminds us our mistakes. pain is an alarm of upcoming beautiful days. There are two types of pain in the world. First is physical pain like tooth ache, body ache, back pain, neck pain etc and second is heart pain. This pain has not any medicine yet. This pain only reduced by bearing it. Rumi says "The cure for pain is in the pain."

When we forget God and run after world and pain enters into our life because all the worldly things are painful. "Put God first put God's work first then the other things will be yours as well" (Mathew 6:33). Where there is God no question arises of pain because God is our higher self and higher self itself is a biggest happiness. We need to explore ourself and start getting rid of pain.

Pain is the only one thing which brings us close to God. In pain we never remember mom or dad or any friend. We just look at the sky and start praying. God is the only one who understands us and support us throughout the bad time. Every relation in the world remains because of some selfishness and our relation with God is only remains because of love.

In hard days we always feel loneliness and this loneliness brings ourself closer to our higher self. We get to know our talents and good and bad qualities which you cannot know in the crowd. Some people do solitude just because to know themselves because they know the value of their existence. Some do meditations.

Pain changes your life. It will increase your conscience. For the first time when you face the pain you feel like going mad. You cry a lot, try a lot and after that you will pray and now you are on the right path. God has the solutions of every situation.

Everything created by God is for our benefits so do as with pain. Pain is necessary. It opens our heart and mind. It makes balance in our life. Pain is a result of mistakes.

I have seen many people who keep on facing pain but never change themselves and their situations and circumstances also never change because our life is depends upon our thoughts. I don't know how they can so stubborn. These types of people live in pain and died in pain and never regret at their actions. As per Osho has said that people love to remain in pain they love increasing their pain while discussing with others, they feel pain when they see someone rising. They feel pain when listening other praise etc.

Every successful person has pain behind his success. learning from pain. All the legends in the world are legends because they have faced a lot of pain, loss in their life and learn from their pain that is why they are very few. Learning from your circumstances is very important.

Pain plays an important part in our life. Nobody can escape from it even all the angles, God and Goddesses of different religion who came into this world had to bear pain. When we are in pain we try hard to get rid of it and here pain shows us the right path. We become very conscious about our Karma which we always forget in our good time. Rumi says "These pains you feel are messengers. Listen to them." Some painful situations continuously happen untill we learn a lesson from them and every time it changes us.

Karma. Our karma tells us about our situations. At which directions we are going. What we give is what we get. We should learn to spread happiness if we want happiness in our life. Once i was listening a lecture of brahmkumari about karmas that when we are in pain we very carefully watch our actions and try to improve them to get rid of pain and really we get rid of pain but the cycle of karma goes on and in happiness we don't watch our actions. Our actions again leads us to pain. One should learn to watch their action because our actions become our karma and our karma leads us to happiness or sorrow.

The relief of pain is to complete surrender and try to accept everything as it comes. trust me your pain will be reduced. The moment you complete surrender to God you will find that your pain reduces 99% and its true. Trust me. In this world only God is one who never gives pain, he gives only blessing. We only understand this when we go closer to him. Rumi says "Every love outside of his love, is pain." Our first love is God and beside God everything is painful in this world and with God everything becomes blissful.

The best lesson pain teaches us to feel others pain as well. Pain teaches us how to pray for ourself and for others. Pain makes us calm and humble. If you want to escape from your future pains then start spreading happiness into others because pain is a result of our bad deeds. No good deeds give pain. Pain is a result of the pain. Think about yours actions and ask yourself that what your actions is giving to others.

"Through love, all pain will turn to medicine."-Rumi. When we love someone whole heartedly we tend to give and give and give without expectations. Today I have realised that you cannot count god's love when I was reading a chapter of a book 'Gratitude'. So true has written when we don't thankful of god we always get frustrated, sad, angry etc. And when we full of thankful to God then we are so happy and everything becomes so easy. Gratitude is the best way to get rid of your pain. Gratitude solves so many problems. Gratitude gives us stress free happy life and I am sure like me you all also want stress free happy life. When I read on that time I thought to share this with you guys. So let a practice it and have happy life.

I hope you guys like it. May God bless you all with spiritual healthy wealthy long life and with good destiny.


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