I was feeling pretty jaded this morning as two different sets of parents at Walmart stopped me in the school supplies aisle to complain about how much they had to get their kids this year. 'This is just ridiculous, I don't know how these teachers think we are suppose to get all this stuff.'

As they complained, they seemed to be oblivious to the fact that my cart was filled with a class set of all the supplies they were buying...which should have been a pretty clear indication that I was one of those greedy teachers they were complaining about. While I was checking out though, things took a very different turn. I noticed the man in front of me in the check-out lane was buying school supplies for his daughter. As he went to leave he said, 'You are a teacher right? I just want to thank you for everything you do. I see your cart is full with supplies, and I just wanted to help out as much as I can.' Then he handed me a $25 dollar Wal-Mart gift card, shook my hand, and walked away with his daughter smiling big at me.

While I was extremely moved by the man's generosity, the part that stuck with me the most was the difference in the message his daughter just heard from her dad compared to the other parents who had been complaining earlier.

The kids who heard their parents complaining heard this message: 'School is not important enough to spend money on it, teachers are not to be trusted and have bad judgement, and learning does not require investment.'

The kid who's dad handed me the gift card heard, 'School is important enough that we should give more than required to make sure it is successful, teachers should be respected and valued, and learning requires us giving it everything we have.'

If money is tight, and you struggle to buy your child school supplies, I understand. Don't worry--more than likely your child will have a teacher and a school that makes sure they have the supplies they need to be successful this year. However, as a parent, do your best to send the right message to your child. The man who gave me the gift card not only made my day, but I know that his daughter will enter the classroom this year with a very different perspective about her teacher and her education, and that is extremely powerful!