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The Way This Dad Handle's His Daughter's Anger Is Beautiful

December 6, 2017

"If I don't know better, I can't do better."

A video of a father talking his daughter through her emotions is going viral for all the right reasons.

"So... yesterday, my Wife, Deceena Gaines, took a video of me talking to my daughter, without my knowledge, and posted it on her Facebook page,"" Randy Gaines wrote on Facebook after learning the video had gone viral.

This is what his Deceena wrote about the video:

"I think I just watched and listened to one of the most powerful conversations in my life.

This man right here. His ability to connect, and to speak from the heart ❤️ Open & honestly...

I fell in love with him before we had our girls, but moments like this make me fall even more in love with him...

We connect on this level; and my heart explodes when he connects to his girls like this...

No yelling. No screaming.

Talking. Discussing emotions and why we have such feelings. HEALTHY outlets (walking, running, punching a pillow, etc)...

Getting down to the root of the problem. Setting boundaries, because feelings were upset. RESPECTING boundaries, to ensure it doesn't occur again...

Parenting which neither of us had growing up. Listening ears as little ones speak. Knowing you are still loved no matter what.

Knowing you are enough, always...

Our goals as parents are to ensure they do not endure what we did as children...

I am so blessed, and so thankful to have this man as my other half. Our girls are blessed to have him as their father. Thank you Randy Gaines for being you!"

Watch the video below.